Monday, 27 October 2008
Clear (ed) as stated.
He mk it clear(ed) to her.
Moving on.
I know she'll become what she wanna be soon.
Hang on my dear girl
I know it's been tough for ya these past months,for yr08 to be exact.
Invested your ALL on him these 2yrs, n u loss ALL.
Cum'on my dear girl, there must be stuffz u gain during these yrs too.
Don't waste your pretty! Obviously he's just not that into u. So stop finding excuses for him!
Guys tell u how they feel even if u refuse to listen or believe them.
"I don't want to be in a serious relationship" truly means "I don't want to be in a serious relationship with you" or "I'm not sure that u're the one." (Sorry.)
If you feel that he's always holding something back, or that you're spending a lot of energy trying to change yourself into something you think will make him happier,
then divorce yourself from him and move on.
Dont let him make you feel stupid about wanting to feel loved.
A man who wants to make a relationship work will move mountain to keep the woman he loves.
If he's not calling you to tell you he loves you and wants you back, if he's not trying to romance your socks off with dates, flowers and poetry,
if he's not doing any of that, he may love you, he may miss you, but ultimately he's just not that into you.
Stop taking his calls and let him really know what it's like to live w/o you.
Life isnt always easy,
but if you keep going and persevere
to the very best of your ability,
You will gain strength to manage the new challenge ahead.
Each goal that you reach
is another important step forward.
Believe that there are bright and wonderfuls days
ahead for you and you will find them.
*hugx*
Sunday, 19 October 2008
Verdict -End(ed)- She've been bothered with his open option.
Initially she thought it's prob just his way of saying,judge by his character.
Thought he doesnt really mean it.
Now,truth revealed.
So it's her,his open option is HER !
I'm right.
Stay away from me.
Move on my dear girl.
Move on my love.
*hug*
Thursday, 16 October 2008
ZLTT06 ~tmr = TGIF~
-Esther P
-Rayna T
Prob heading to demsey for alil romancing chilling~
Or bukit timah old town for alil ice-cream toast~
Something which i've yearn for quite sometimez - relaxing wkend with clear mind ^^
Yes, she'll not be hiding in ta noise-pack club n running away from ta reality.
We love ya, pls be back. And i'm touched by the simple words.
She has mk ta reservation on sat 7pm.
Final verdict.
After which = proceed to next stage.
CSL Tan, i knw it's kinda self-destructing, but i need it to curb ta pain n ta refresh heehee... final verdict shall just depend on this coming wkend.
Just cross my finger n hope everythings goes well, which i alr reckon the negative outcome = judge by ta reality for me my calves,eye etc...
Otherwise, shall proceed with ta harsh decision for me myself n I heee...sigh
We love ya,pls be back. Soon!
*hugz* (")^o^(")
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Ain't it not worth for the new beginning despite for the full ("v") & blood?
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Tuesday, 14 October 2008
her holidayz in Y08 ...given another two days of MC today, and she misses her friend's agnes birthday dinner with the rest ##
Ta above mk her recalled regard her holiday of ta yr 2008.
= Serious problems arisez since Mar i reckon.
April, She intend to go for a solo-travel holiday in hope of getting better.
...her friend's Stella join her niway.
They were busy shopping,roaming ard the streetz,shopping mallz and concert during ta week in hk- enough to distract her regard those prob...
:: a week later after she's back to Sin, she met a minor accident which is enough to leave a life-long scar on her calve ::
= Final decision aft the verdict post by ta party in June.
...her second thought of solo-travelled of the yr to run away from it.
her friends n him know that aussie is her next destination, none of them fulfilled.
...She met a buddy @ ta eleventh hour.
Last mth,She enjoyed her flight & various experiencez in adel,mel,syd,goldcoast- alil preview of aust for her during ta 2wks.
:: a week or two aft she's back fr aust, she's just so sick that she fainted @ ta train stat. And today, as stated above,due to her eye...
lol~ how cranky her holiday's aftmath uh~
Hey there's a slight-long-wkend coming!! 24th-27th Oct!!
Etd Sin: 24/10 @1900 hrs
Eta Sin: 27/10 @1200 hrs
She's pending for a short-getaway prob to genting.
Anybody game for it?
What's gonna happen next for her...
*huggies*
Monday, 13 October 2008
living life~ 
Emma's lovez ya! so does her friends yaa!! ^^
More than 101 stuffz happened/happening...not only on her but the circle of friends..
It is just part & parcel of life i reckon.
Emma's colleague esther remind her of the previous bloggie, n she found the below entry interesting...
share,
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somethingz bout ta resilience...
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..aS we've all seen it: when adversity strikes, some pplz flourish, while others fall apart. wat sets ta survivors apart is their resilience- ta ability to enduRe n eveN thriVe undeR streSsfuL conditions.
Resilience is weLL worth cultivating. Instead of being overwhelmed by tough breaks, resilient ppl mk ta besT of theM. Resilience helpz ya transform streSSfuL circumstances fr potentiaL disasters into opportunities.
They choose action oveR passivity, empowerment oveR powerLess.
**yUpz!! i wanNa be a resilient ppl toO!!!!(")+_+(")**
--> try to be moRe curious n open to change in smaLL waYz so daT when major changes come along, or u choose to mk them, u'LL haf built up soMe positive experienCe.
--> highly resilience ppl ask lots of qns, want to noe hw things work..deY wonder abt things, experiment, mk mistakes, get hurT, laugh..
--> when difficult situation arise, ask urself wat skills n coping mechanisms u used to survive in ta past. wat supported ya? wat mk it possible for ya to cope?
--> pplz lack resilience tend to pin their problems on other people or outside events. they blame their partners for a bad r'ship, their boss for a crummy job, their genes for a health problem. Certainly, if someone does something terrible to ya, he or she is at fault. But Resilient ppl try to separate themselves fr ta person or event tat hurt them and mk an effort to move on. It'z not ta situation but hw ya respond to it tat matters.
A victim blames the situation.
A resilient person says," hw I respond to this is wat counTs."
conclusioN: LeTz aLL leaRn to b a Resilient peRson.
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Hey this's Life yea!!
Let's piece up ta puzzle yupz!!?
-Good night tingting, *hugz*
Thursday, 22 May 2008
ta verdicT~ ta instinct show me tat te verdicT's gonna be out soOn~
sO we shall juZ wait and seE yuPx~~
rather Sarcastically till noW... lol~
=ta pragmatic reality=
Sunday, 6 January 2008
lesson learnt~ She has decide that it's time for ta reroute in hers.
Three requirements for success:
the vision to see,
the faith to believe,
and the courage to do.
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...m kinda much bothered by ta discreet action lately..to be exact = always.
V.much annoyed & disappointed when ta truth is learned.
...for her, SHARING is always ta key factor in a r/s...she did her part..
BUT it's just an one sided act. Sadden huhz...
Niway,i hereby declared & promised ya that i shall not be bothered by ta above fr this sec~i've already done my part n worked to my utmost for ta past mthsSs~ ^^
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"Change is one of the necessary ingredients in life if we are to succeed,or even
survive."
i've faith in myself!!! ahahaaaahaaa (^________^)/~
Loads lub,
MuacKzzzZzzz!!^^
Friday, 4 January 2008
VirtuaL her's mood lifted by ta virtual statues~
though aft 20mth~
though... virtual...
she's just nowhr noW~
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... >24 mth in-exchange for ta drm to come into ta reality~
though workload ^ stress ^,im still into my work,contributed by other misc factors.
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...without challenges, u're just like anybody out der...
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sOoo..letz face n war ta challenges during ta tough times...&
gain strength to manage the new challenges ahead in life~
Wednesday, 2 January 2008
man propose god dispose she's feeling darn awful now!!!
tell me she'll be back she'll be fine!!!
i know she will!!!
*lots lub*
Sunday, 30 December 2007
30th Dec 07 ..went ECP with luuluu ytd~aft ta 20mthz!!!!
bubblez ta way deRrrRr~~
accomp by ta neW zebra i got fr bkk~ ^^
wE're tHeRe~~ ^^
grab a bite before ta rain stop in 10minz!!
@ ta b.jetty~ ^^
ta piaky slippeR!!
ahhhhhh........
subdue ta eViL who buLLy ta cuTez!! hee...
time for ta punishmenT!! (^_____________________^)/~
Our dinNer~
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wHom u'll wanna to be with for ta last and 1st second of ta new yr...? (^_^.(")/~
Saturday, 15 December 2007
story started fr it~~^^ ta weight piling mth...all those parties and good food are blowing me horizontally!!!
thot of clearing my leave for workout..but..peak period now ##...
niway was browsing thru "my picture"-ta folder larz
...n i come across ta below...tiz's whr my story started 20mths ago... ^oo^
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yaa..ta Rabbit-Gua~~~ heeEeee... ^^
Wednesday, 5 December 2007
Dec ichi~ Loadz happening event...~stuffz~
Ready for ta challenges/battles within ta own geM~
To be continued~~~ ^^
Thursday, 29 November 2007
butter~ buttered~ buttercup~ juz got buttered fr my sales mgr...but it's fact and logic, so still can accept..hmm..can consider a learning session for me too..
quite impress by her actually larz.hee..
Paid ^ workload ^
Though m okiez by ta butter-cum-learning lesson...m still affected by tat..
im buttercup today humph! wawawawawaWaaa... ##
Tuesday, 27 November 2007
damco teambuilding 2007-Game 1 Maersk log + damco = APM GLOBAL Singapore
"Either we mk it or we break it"..Boss gave us-the 2nd gen- to plan for ta teambuilding 07... 4 mthz of brain racking,meeting,diy'ing,ot'ing...
pulai->batam->BKK!! woOoOoohoOoo!!
Ta six of us m really glad and proud tat ta event ended successfully on 24th Nov!!!
dinner onboard Swiss flight
@ bkk airport
ta yuckie suX rm =(
ta six 2nd gen @ breakfast~ ^^
aLL ready!!!
